For years, I shared stories.
Now I’m asking different questions.
? Why did one effort succeed while another failed
? Why do similar efforts produce different outcomes
? What role do assumptions, context, and timing play in the lives we create
Sticky Thoughts
“New stories, new patterns, straight to your inbox”
Every struggle leaves a clue. For years, I shared the stories – moments of breakdown and breakthrough from women navigating real life.
Now I’m doing something different: looking back at these stories to find what they have in common. The patterns. The assumptions we never question. The discomfort we avoid.
What I’m discovering might surprise you – and it might also be exactly what you’re looking for.
The Intrepid Entrepreneur
Doll company. Lavender farm. Best-selling novels. Whatever Rebecca builds, she builds on what she already knows – because she never stops learning, and she is the architect of her own life.
A Gut-Wrenching Choice
People assume owning your business means freedom. Vicki learned the harder truth: sometimes surviving means cutting your losses and walking away completely. Two decades later, she built another company – wiser, and faster.
Flipping the Narrative
Her husband cheated, left her with two babies and a debt-ridden house – and asked her to keep laughing at his jokes anyway. Decades later, when he died, his new wife’s first phone call was to Pam.
Opt-Out, Hang On, or Be a Phoenix
Three sisters. Same abuse. Same household. One died by suicide. One became an addict. One became the mayor. What made the difference wasn’t luck – it was choice.
Stardust Power
For centuries, Hamar tradition dictated that a woman who left her abusive husband should die. Gulu defied it – and survived, because her courage and leadership had become too valuable for her community to lose. Today, her people thrive because of the woman they almost killed.